How to flirt, send the right body language to show i am single now?

[ladybug777]

I AM A SINGLE WOMAN 44 AND I JUST WENT THROUGH A DIVORCE(25 YEARS OF MARRIAGE) I SOMEHOW SEND THE WRONG VIBE THAT I AM TAKEN. I DON'T KNOW TO FLIRT OR GIVE THE RIGHT MESSAGE TO MEN. I DONT WAN'T TO LOOK SLUTTY OR DESPRATE! lol JUST SINGLE!

[SummerM]

Just be yourself...no hair tossing and eyelash batting or come hither looks please. If there is another suitable man out there, you will meet him without sending any ridiculous signals.

[MizzJones]

Most married women are confident, that's what you project. That scares most men. And you are too old to become a slut. Go to some reputable places to meet responsible men. If you want a male, OK, flirt and bat eyelashes. That will get you a mattress for the evening and only God knows how many STDs.

Join some clubs at the community center, church, join a bowling league, volunteer for a fundraiser like a 10K walk/run, volunteer at a hospital, take up a new hobby. Learn to chit-chat and be open and friendly. I meet men at the mall, on the Metro, at picnics. Have friends you trust introduce you to single men they know. Also learn to say no. Don't go home with people and don't go to bed with them right away. Take their number, email, twitter, whatever and be patient while investigating their background, employment, health status.

Most of all be yourself and you should be successful.