Why are guys always flirting with me but never ask me out?
So many guys flirt with me, call me pretty blah blah. We text alot he tells me everything. But I never get asked out? I think the girl's (me) getting friendzoned here. How can i get a guy that flirts with me alot to ask me out?
And whenever a guy does tell me he likes me, he just does that. No 'will you go out with me?' or 'be my girlfriend?' its just a plain 'I like you'.
And i usually dont respond with 'I like you too' because i don't like him. I only tend to start liking guys AFTER we date. see?
Is this odd?
I feel like im stuck in some hole i can't get out of.
they arn't man enough lol ,, it's simple, they need to be aggressive, make a move, take the initiative
love needs to be nice & slow lol,, maybe hangout first
the best relationships are because of the strong friendship they both have with each other
their's no wrong reason for you to ask a guy out lol if your strong & indepedent, i'm sure you'll see through all the games,,
Play hard to get. It always worked for me. It seems like guys want more and more what they can't have.
I wouldn't play hard to get, it's a waste of time and it tortures both parties emotions. You can still have your higher standards and go for quality and not be easy. But don't toy with a man's mind, especially when you've been looking to date a guy for a while.
I think what's going on here is that the guys you are meeting don't really want a relationship. They are not looking for anything official, they just want a quick and easy time and then they move on and maybe they were just hoping you'd get the hint without them actually saying it. I guess they are trying to tell you that this is nothing personal, but he would still like to have 'fun'. So, I consider the fact that when they don't ask you out, you are probably in the safe zone, rather than in the friend zone.
You need to go after a guy who is going to take time to get to know you. Not just say "i like you" after a few days or even a week. Something stronger than has to start up first and then you will really know. And if those guys were REALLY interested in you and wanted to really chase you, they would have asked you out by now. But they didn't. So don't go after hesitant guys or guys whose feelings are not strong and right for you anyway.
Don't do anything outside your normal personality or what you stand for just to get a guy to ask you out. That should be his decision without any force from you. You need to be patient.